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Author: Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW Publisher: Sounds True ISBN: 1683647696 Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 204
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Break Free From Over-Functioning, Over-Delivering, People-Pleasing, and Ignoring Your Own Needs So You Can Finally Live the Life You Deserve! Most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, potentially destroying hard-won trust and relationships. The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life. Since becoming a Boundary Boss is a process, Cole also offers actionable strategies, scripts, and techniques that can be used in the moment, whenever you need them. You will learn: • How to recognize when your boundaries have been violated and what to do next • How your unique “Boundary Blueprint” is unconsciously driving your boundary behaviors, and strategies to redesign it • Powerful boundary scripts so in the moment you will know what to say • How to manage “Boundary Destroyers”—including emotional manipulators, narcissists, and other toxic personalities • Where you fall on the spectrum of codependency and how to create healthy, balanced relationships This book is for women who are exhausted from over-giving, overdoing, and even over-feeling. If you’re getting it all done but at the expense of yourself, give yourself the gift of Boundary Boss.
Author: Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW Publisher: Sounds True ISBN: 1683647696 Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 204
Book Description
Break Free From Over-Functioning, Over-Delivering, People-Pleasing, and Ignoring Your Own Needs So You Can Finally Live the Life You Deserve! Most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, potentially destroying hard-won trust and relationships. The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life. Since becoming a Boundary Boss is a process, Cole also offers actionable strategies, scripts, and techniques that can be used in the moment, whenever you need them. You will learn: • How to recognize when your boundaries have been violated and what to do next • How your unique “Boundary Blueprint” is unconsciously driving your boundary behaviors, and strategies to redesign it • Powerful boundary scripts so in the moment you will know what to say • How to manage “Boundary Destroyers”—including emotional manipulators, narcissists, and other toxic personalities • Where you fall on the spectrum of codependency and how to create healthy, balanced relationships This book is for women who are exhausted from over-giving, overdoing, and even over-feeling. If you’re getting it all done but at the expense of yourself, give yourself the gift of Boundary Boss.
Author: Ross A. Rosenberg Publisher: PESI Publishing & Media ISBN: 1936128314 Category : Psychology Languages : en Pages : 200
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"Born in the cauldron of personal experience of suffering and healing and honed through years of professional experience, this book will help anyone understand the attractors of love and consequent suffering. I recommend it to couples who are mystified by the depth and repitition of their pain and joy and to therapists whose destiny is to help them." ~ Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., co-author with Helen LaKelly Hunt of Making Marriage Simple: Transform the Relationship you Have Into the Relationship you Want Since the dawn of civilization, men and women have been magnetically and irresistibly drawn together into romantic relationships, not so much by what they see, feel and think, but more by invisible forces. When individuals with healthy emotional backgrounds meet, the irresistible “love force” creates a sustainable, reciprocal and stable relationship. Codependents and emotional manipulators are similarly enveloped in a seductive dreamlike state; however, it will later unfold into a painful “seesaw” of love, pain, hope and disappointment. The soul mate of the codependent’s dreams will become the emotional manipulator of their nightmares. Readers of the Human Magnet Syndrome will better understand why they, despite their dreams for true love, find themselves hopelessly and painfully in love with partners who hurt them. This book will guide and inspire both the layman and the professional.
Author: Robert Mayer Publisher: Independently Published ISBN: 9781671196933 Category : Languages : en Pages : 287
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Do you think that you are victim of narcissist abuse? Would you like to stop this issue and take control of your life? Then you need to keep reading! Writers often distinguish narcissists and codependents as opposites, but surprisingly, though their outward behavior may differ, they share many psychological traits. In fact, narcissists exhibit core codependent symptoms of shame, denial, control, dependency (unconscious), and dysfunctional communication and boundaries, all leading to intimacy problems. One study showed a significant correlation between narcissism and codependency. Although most narcissists can be classified as codependent, but the reverse isn't true -- most codependents aren't narcissists. They don't exhibit common traits of exploitation, entitlement, and lack of empathy. There are a few ways to avoid this type of behavior and abuse, but you will need a good book to guide you! Here it is what you will find inside: What is the narcissist personality disorder What types of narcissists exist How to recognize a narcissist in a relationship What is the connection between Narcissism and Codependency ...and much more! Although codependents dream of dancing with an unconditionally loving and affirming partner, they submit to their dysfunctional destiny. Until they decide to heal the psychological wounds that ultimately compel them to dance with their narcissistic dance partners, they will be destined to maintain the steady beat and rhythm of their dysfunctional dance. But all of this can be avoided! Just scroll the page and press the buy button to get all the information you need!
Author: Ross Rosenberg Publisher: Createspace Independent Publishing Platform ISBN: 9781983827495 Category : Codependency Languages : en Pages : 0
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The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap is a complete rewrite of Ross's first book. Not only is the book re-written, re-organized, updated and expanded, it contains over 125 more pages than the original. Ross provides a more explicit rendering of The Human Magnet Syndrome, that includes new theories, explanations and concepts. The information on Gaslighting and The Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome, like the rest of the book, is cutting edge and completely original. This book contains many more case examples and stories of Ross's own codependency recovery. Like its predecessor, it is written for both the layman and professional. Men and women have been magnetically and irresistibly drawn together into romantic relationships, not so much by what they see, feel and think, but more by invisible forces. Codependents and Pathological Narcissists are enveloped in a seductive dreamlike state; however, it will later unfold into a painful "seesaw" of love, pain, hope and disappointment. The soul mate of the codependent's dreams will become the narcissist of their nightmares. Readers of the Human Magnet Syndrome will better understand why they, despite their dreams for true love, find themselves hopelessly and painfully in love with partners who hurt them. This book will guide and inspire both the layman and the professional.
Author: Margalis Fjelstad Publisher: Rowman & Littlefield ISBN: 144222018X Category : Psychology Languages : en Pages : 229
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People with Borderline or Narcissistic Personality Disorders are master manipulators; Caretakers fall for them every time. This book helps Caretakers break the cycle and puts them on a new path of personal freedom, discovery, and self-awareness, through the use of real stories and practical suggestions from a seasoned therapist.
Author: Darlene Lancer Publisher: John Wiley & Sons ISBN: 1118236874 Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 338
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Codependency is much more widespread than originally thought. You don’t even have to be in a relationship. Codependents have trouble accepting themselves, so they hide who they are to be accepted by someone else. Codependency for Dummies is the most comprehensive book on the topic to date. It describes the history, symptoms, causes, and relationship dynamics of codependency and provides self-assessment questionnaires. The majority of the book is devoted to healing and lays out a clear plan for recovery with exercises, practical advice, and helpful daily reminders to help you know, honor, protect, and express yourself. It clarifies deep psychological dynamics that underlie codependency, yet is written in a conversational style that’s easily understandable by everyone. You will learn: How to raise your self-esteem The difference between care-giving and codependent care-taking The difference between healthy and dysfunctional families How to set boundaries How to separate responsibility for yourself and for others How to overcome guilt and resentment
Author: Kenny Weiss Publisher: eBookIt.com ISBN: 1456629654 Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 153
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This is a book for the person who is hungry for an answer. I know that feeling. I was stuck in it for years and as a Coach and Speaker, I have noticed there is a constant theme for us all. We have read all of the success books, we have gone to the seminars but when we go to execute their wonderful information a feeling comes up. We lay in bed and just don't "feel" like doing what they suggest even though we know it will make our life better. That "feeling" stops us from executing one or more steps they suggest we take to make our lives better. I couldn't overcome that feeling either. Here I was an alcoholic, a sex addict, sugar addict, spending addict, tobacco addict, love addict, I had gone bankrupt, been through two horrific divorces, a child custody battle, I played two professional sports I never wanted to play and I contemplated suicide. None of the books showed me or explained where that feeling comes from, why we all get it and how to overcome it. Without that information, I couldn't execute all of their wonderful suggestions. So this is my story and how I took all of that great information from all of those great success teachers, I collated it and then added to it. I discuss where that feeling comes from, why we all get it and how to overcome it. This book bridges the gap. When you have this information, this skillset to overcome that "feeling" than you can put into place all of their incredible advice and have the personal and professional success we are all searching for.
Author: Courtney Evans Publisher: ISBN: 9781914064074 Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 302
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Need to Get Out of a Relationship with a Narcissist & Start Building Healthy Connections? Then Keep Reading! Do you feel constantly manipulated by a partner into doing things you don't want to do? Are you being guilt-tripped whenever you say NO to a close friend? Do you feel powerless over your future because of a deep need to be validated by a family member? If you said YES to at least one of these questions, we have bad news for you. You may have codependency issues with a narcissist! But don't feel bad. This is more common than you think. Studies show that over 90% of Americans show codependency behavior. While all people have narcissistic traits to some degree, 1% of the general population is diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder. That's a lot! The good news is that there is no shortage of help for you. If you're looking for a way out, help is here! Introducing "Narcissistic Abuse and Codependency" by renowned psychologist Courtney Evans. This guide takes you on a step-by-step process to effectively deal with a narcissist. If you want to outsmart a narcissist, stop being codependent, overcome jealousy, and start building healthy relationships, keep reading! Throughout this insightful book, you will: Pinpoint exactly who the narcissist is in your life by learning about how typical narcissists behave Find out how narcissists get in your head and develop the right mindset to take back your control Learn a narcissist's vulnerabilities so you can apply the 7 important steps to get back at them Avoid falling for a gaslighter by learning the signs that you are being gaslighted into submission Never wallow in the aftermath of being gaslighted by effectively applying all the foolproof strategies Fight codependency by never falling victim to it in the first place using useful tips about detecting codependency patterns And so much more! You don't have to put up with things you don't deserve. You CAN learn to heal and grow beyond the bounds of narcissistic abuse! Grab a copy of "Narcissistic Abuse and Codependency" now! Buy Now And Change Your Life for the Better Today!
Author: Darlene Lancer Publisher: Hazelden Publishing ISBN: 1616495332 Category : Self-Help Languages : en Pages : 250
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A nationally recognized author and codependency expert examines the roots of shame and its connection with codependent relationships. Learn how to heal from their destructive hold by implementing eight steps that will empower the real you, and lead to healthier relationships. Shame: the torment you feel when you’re exposed, humiliated, or rejected; the feeling of not being good enough. It’s a deeply painful and universal emotion, yet is not frequently discussed. For some, shame lurks in the unconscious, undermining self-esteem, destroying confidence, and leading to codependency. These codependent relationships—where we overlook our own needs and desires as we try to care for, protect, or please another—often cover up abuse, addiction, or other harmful behaviors. Shame and codependency feed off one another, making us feel stuck, never able to let go, move on, and become the true self we were meant to be. In Conquering Shame and Codependency, Darlene Lancer sheds new light on shame: how codependents’ feelings and beliefs about shame affect their identity, their behavior, and how shame can corrode relationships, destroying trust and love. She then provides eight steps to heal from shame, learn to love yourself, and develop healthy relationships.
Author: James F. Masterson Publisher: Zeig Tucker & Theisen Publishers ISBN: 9781932462098 Category : Psychology Languages : en Pages : 204
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Contributors from the Masterson Institute introduce the fundamental concepts, theories, and treatment approaches of James F. Masterson, synthesizing the material of his 14 books and many articles. The second part is a workbook in the form of a questionnaire to enable practitioners to apply the skill
Author: Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW
Author: Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW
Author: Ross A. Rosenberg
Author: Robert Mayer
Author: Ross Rosenberg
Author: Margalis Fjelstad
Author: Darlene Lancer
Author: Kenny Weiss
Author: Courtney Evans
Author: Darlene Lancer
Author: James F. Masterson